Once while on active duty, I went to a beach that charged $10 per car. I stopped at the toll both, holding a $20 bill out my window, when I remembered to ask, "Do you give any kind of military discount?" The man in the booth was older. He had white hair and was wearing a security uniform. He reached for my money, but as soon as I asked that question he handed it back. "Yes. Well, no. We don't officially, but I'm going to," he said. I sat with my foot on the brake, waiting for him to tell me what the discount might be, maybe $5 instead? "Just go on through, please." Surprised and grateful, I thanked him and drove through. Another time, while in uniform, I drove my sister to the airport on my way into work. We stopped at McDonalds for breakfast, and after we ordered at the register, a man stepped up beside me and said, "I'd like to pay for the Lieutenant's meal please." More recently, my husband was on his way to drill for th...