Magical Moment 295, "My Picky Eater"

Don't let the title of this blog fool you, it's not about a toddler or small child. My husband is one of the most low-key people that I know in all but one aspect, food. I was astonished after we were married when I realized how picky of an eater he truly was. And since he finds the title "picky eater" offensive and inaccurate (eye roll), we now lovingly say he has a "sensitive pallet."

I wonder just how many lugies I've eaten at restaurants after he's given specific instructions about the food to the waiter, or sent the food back when it didn't meet the standard. He despises leftovers and if he has to eat them, they have to be heated in the oven, not the microwave. He has a Monk-like compulsion about his food touching each other, and it's not unusual to see him carry 3 or more plates of his separated dinner so that the tastes aren't intermingled. He likes 2 ice cubes in his milk. Two percent.

Needless to say, it's quite different from the way I was raised when we lived for a week off an enormous pot of chili, reheated for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. But after 3 1/2 years of marriage, I've got his strange habits learned pretty well. When in doubt if he'll eat something, either cover it in cheese, douse it with salt, or deep fry it. That usually does the trick.

When we first started dating, all we could do for a "date" was make dinner for each other and eat in. We couldn't go out in public because of our forbidden love (click here for a loooong story). So whoever got done with work first would go to my apartment and cook supper for both of us. One of my first dinners I made was BLT sandwiches (bacon, lettuce, and tomato). I was quite proud of this as I rarely cooked and my knowledge of recipes was extremely limited. I served the sandwich on toasted wheat bread with mayonnaise, bacon, lettuce and tomato.

He ate every bite. Being the kind, gentle, but finicky soul that he is, he approached me later and explained that he didn't want to hurt my feelings, but also knowing we would be together for a very long time and I should know something, "I hate wheat bread, mayonnaise, lettuce, and tomato."

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My mind is so full of information that I want to share with you all from my week in Tijuana. This post will be just that, information. Factual and first hand. Witnessed and experienced by me. Thousands of migrants from all over the world, mainly from Central America, have traveled to Tijuana’s west U.S. port of entry seeking safety, better economic conditions, and/or to be with family already in the U.S. My motivation for taking this volunteer trip was to help the families in the extreme asylum-seeking cases - those who live in terror and fear both IN their home country and FROM their home country. Gangs and governments work hand in hand to target and terrorize families for their own personal interests. There is a list. The list has numbers on it. Asylum seekers want to get a number from this list and they want their number to be called. Like a deli. I was incapable of finding answers as to who creates this list, who decides how many numbers are on the list, and basically any ot...

Magical Moment 620, "Lilac Garden"

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Magical Moment 625, "Thailand - the Elephants"

Needless to say, my favorite part of our Thailand vacation, was our week long volunteering at Elephant Nature Park ! The logging industry was banned in Thailand in 1989, leaving thousands of elephants unemployed. These elephants are now used for tourism. You may have heard of elephant shows featuring the animals playing soccer or painting pictures with their trunks. They are no doubt amazing to watch, but the sad truth is that these elephants have gone through a series of torture and abuse to "break their spirit" by their trainers. This short clip is very hard to watch, but it will give you an idea of what the elephants in captivity in the country of Thailand go through. The only elephants in Thailand who do not endure this, are the very few baby elephants who are first generation born in "safe captivity" at places like Elephant Nature Park. Every other elephant at this park has been brutally abused. Some have been blinded by their owners, le...

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