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Magical Moment 327, "Abuelas"

I've never won the lottery. I don't win contests, drawings, or raffles. But somehow, miraculously , the 2 best Grandmas on the planet are mine! How it happened, I can't say. All I can do is be grateful. Come to think of it, on our trip home to Texas and Nebraska, we've been surrounded by quite a few wonderful Grandmas.                         "Grandmothers are just antique little girls."  ~Author Unknown "Grandma always made you feel she had been waiting to see just you all day and now the day was complete."  ~Marcy DeMaree "There's no place like home except Grandma's."  ~Author Unknown "Grandmother-grandchild relationships are simple.  Grandmas are short on criticism and long on love."  ~Author Unknow n "A grandmother is a babysitter who watches the kids instead of the television."   ~Author Unknown "A grandmother pretends she doesn't know who you are on Halloween."   ~Erma Bombeck

Magical Moment 326, "The Sounds of Bedtime"

It starts with the phrase, "Okay, jammies on!" Next we hear one great yawn. A groan or two will naturally follow. "Gulp," as the the milk goes down with a swallow. A bedtime story is read allowed Of bears and bunnies and birds on a cloud.   "Goodnight mommy. Goodnight Aunt Beth. "Goodnight Uncle Eddie," he takes a short breath. "Goodnight Ironman, and Spiderman too." (Pet fish after all deserve a proper adieu.) "Good night dear Jesus, and thanks for my mom." Finally he's tucked in, and all is calm. And the final sound, makes barely a noise. Just silent dreams, and a whisper, "Goodnight, sweet boys."

Magical Moment 325, "A Lincolnite Comes Home"

I am a 3rd generation "Lincolnite." That means, like both my parents, and all my grandparents, I was born and raised in Lincoln, Nebraska. We have an odd camaraderie in this part of the state. Recognized nationally for only our football team and being the home of Warren Buffet, I get some strange reactions when I tell people I'm from Nebraska. Specifically, I remember once as a little girl on vacation in Colorado. A woman from a different state asked me where I was from, and when I said "Nebraska," she replied with, "What state is that in?" But if you are from Nebraska, specifically the Lincoln area, you'll find that we have very strong feelings about our home. Pla mor Ballroom, O Street, Lee's Chicken, Pioneers Park, the State Fair, the stadium, the Hay Market, and the Capitol Building, are all things that you could mention to any of us, and we would immediately light up with recognition and pride.  I've been away from my Lincoln home

Magical Moment 324, "Christmas Magic Moments"

Merry Christmas! Today has been full of magical moments. Here are my family's favorite moments so far: My mother's magical moment, was opening her gift from her daughters. A set of hand-painted Ne' Qwa Art Nativity ornaments.  My father's magical moment, was sitting at the beautifully set Holiday dinner table, looking around at all his family. Eddie's magical moment, was when little Trace saw him, and immediately reached out to him. Trace never reached for another person the whole night. My older sister's magical moment, was watching her boys being unconditionally showered with love by their Aunt and Uncle. My little sister's magical moment, was after Christmas Eve dinner. She was hand-washing the china and I stood behind her, french braiding her long, black, beautiful hair. Mine, was Christmas morning, when little Zach brought me a book to read and sat on my lap. Only a few seconds later, Ethan came over and sat on my other knee. We read the stor

Magical Moment 323, "Like Mother Like Daughter"

Eddie and I are on the second half of our Christmas trip. After a week with Eddie's family in Texas, we drove 10 hours straight north to Lincoln, NE where I'm from. Only two hours into our trip, we crossed the Oklahoma border. Upon first site of an Oklahoma oil pump, an old memory was triggered and I told Eddie this story. My mother lived in Oklahoma when she was younger and to this day dreams of going back. On a family vacation when I was 16, we drove to Florida passing through Oklahoma on the way. This was the first time my mom had been back for years. Sitting in the front seat of the car, she suddenly squealed with such excitement, randomness, and intensity, that everyone in the car jumped a mile in the air. I was terrified that maybe we hit an animal in the road or something horrible. When my mother calmed down, she explained that she had seen an oil pump, and it simply reminded her of a happy childhood memory that she hadn't thought of for years. I told Eddie this st

Magical Moment 322, "Cradle Song"

I learned the song, "Wiegala" a few years ago when I was asked to choose and play 2 songs for a Holocaust Remembrance Observance in the Army. I was drawn to this song because of its simple, haunting beauty. It's a lullaby meaning "cradle song" and was heard in work camps as mothers tried to sooth their frightened children. With my great interest in World War II, this song has come to mean a great deal to me. This video is from the Play Me, I'm Yours project and was taken at Central Park's Merchant Gate. To see photos from the Play Me I'm Yours project, click here . To see more videos, click here .

Magical Moment 321, "What's in a Gift?"

I put great thought and care into the Christmas presents I got for my loved ones this year. Gifts are one way I can to say to someone, "I appreciate you, care for you, think about you." Although they may not be expensive or extravagant, I hope that when they are opened, the receiver will feel special and know that I care for and value them. And the reason I think this has been heavy on my mind this year, is because I've been quite fortunate in the gifts I've received...from my husband. Not just at Christmas, not just on our anniversary, not just for my birthday. But the flowers I receive when he comes home from the grocery store on a Tuesday. Or the fuzzy socks he saw at Wal-mart and thought of me when he stopped to get anti-freeze for the car. Or the Chewy Sweetarts he grabbed at a gas station because he knows those are my favorite. These gifts have been a reflection of Eddie's feelings for me, his love, his thoughts, his heart. It comes out in his gifts. Wh